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How are your ridgebacks with children?
« on: April 15, 2006, 05:37 PM »
We decided not to take one of Micah's Jazzy's first litter when we found out that we were having one of our own (identical twin girls in May, 2004). they are 2 now and their big sister is 4.5. We're still getting the hang of managing all three of them at the same time. So we're not quite ready to add a dog into the mix. But we hope it won't be too long now.

Would you guys mind talking about how your dogs are with small children? I'm interested in how they are with kids of all ages too.... if you don't mind sharing!

Thanks!

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Re: How are your ridgebacks with children?
« Reply #1 on: April 15, 2006, 07:24 PM »
From the time we picked Max up (nearly 3 years ago), we had him at the Y watching my daughter's soccer games.  Hundreds of kids all ages and he cleans every one of their faces if they want to pet him!  He's never met a kid he didn't clean, I mean, like!

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Re: How are your ridgebacks with children?
« Reply #2 on: April 15, 2006, 07:57 PM »
My boy, Zonka, has been highly socialized since he was a pup with children of all ages, adults and other dogs.  He grew up with my stepdaughter who is now 11 (he is 3) and the neighborhood kids.  He is great with the kids, of all ages, even tries to go down the slide on the playscape with them..lol.  We will be going of a CGC test this winter and I am sure he will do very well.

One great story comes to mind.. Our neighbor runs a daycare and there is a boy around 6 who is afraid of dogs.  Well, he came over to see Zonka and it has been love ever since.  Zonka sat calmly for him, gave him his paw and let him pet his ridge as long as this little boy wanted.  Now, the boy comes over every afternoon to give Zonka a hug. 

Socializing helped but Zonka has a big heart and loves just about everyone!  I am a firm believer in it is all how you raise your dogs. 

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Re: How are your ridgebacks with children?
« Reply #3 on: April 15, 2006, 10:21 PM »
Sasha's surrendering owner had a small daughter.  Sasha would bark like mad when she saw children.  For a long time, we kept her away from kids, not quite understanding what that was all about.  But then.... a very brave 5 year old boy asked if he could approach her and pet her.  As soon as she was touched, she stopped barking, pranced a bit and was happy.  So from then on, we asked kids (if they were old enough) to just touch her to get her to stop.  They thought it was a silly trick!

Our son is 14 months old tomorrow and our Stella has decided that his lap is now big enough to sit on!  It is the funniest! 
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Re: How are your ridgebacks with children?
« Reply #4 on: April 15, 2006, 10:32 PM »
How quickly my sister forgets!  Renee, do you remember coming to town and staying with us  about two weeks after we adopted Nellie?  Chaya was an infant and aside from the fact that Jazzy thought her feet were toys, the dogs were perfect with her!

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Re: How are your ridgebacks with children?
« Reply #5 on: April 15, 2006, 11:11 PM »
Our dogs are all really good with our kids. Riley was a little unsure when we brought home cooper. She wouldnt eat, she wouldnt come near me if I was holding the little guy. Now she is just fine, and has even taught the baby to feed her under the table.

But we do have to wacth when my oldest is playing with his friends. One time my little boy galen, wasa playing in the yard with another child his age. Murphy was outside as well. My son's friend pushed him down, and Murphy came running and fipped his rar around knocking the kid on his rear end. Murphy wasnt having any part of his boy getting tossed around. so now we keep the doggies inside, while the kids play.

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Re: How are your ridgebacks with children?
« Reply #6 on: April 16, 2006, 03:16 PM »
Our kids were 4 and 8 when Rhoda came to us.  She is fantastic.. and so is our new girl Nova.

 It is really interesting to see the interaction  in our back yard with the kids and dogs..Every neighborhood kid seems to always end up in our back yard... and they come and go all day long through the gate..(it is a huge yard with 6 foot wood privacy fence) neither dog bats an eyelash at the kids.. (even new ones)
 
But if an adult comes to the gate..both dogs are on full alert..and  holding that person at full bray till the all clear is given... even if it is an adult they know.. unless its family.  I am sure they think it is their job to protect the back yard and every puppy (even if it is human) in it.

It is so funny to see the 2...4 legged kids playing a game of tag with all the 2 leggers..It is obvious they are all playing by the same rules..

Both of my dogs have been around toddler size kids too...they are very cautious and careful around them...

Both of the Ridgie girls were around 5 months when they came to us...and it worked out really well..I would be interested in hearing how it works for folks with toddlers and younger pups.

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Re: How are your ridgebacks with children?
« Reply #7 on: April 16, 2006, 03:24 PM »
Our kids were 4 and 8 when Rhoda came to us.  She is fantastic.. and so is our new girl Nova.
Addie:

our grand daughter has lived with us since she was 2 mos old.  She is now 22 months.  She was here before Rhett who came at 9 weeks.  He is great with her.  Joe was 4 years old when Madison came to us.  I worked with him and our other RR, 'Dozer months before she was born.  I used a baby powder smelling doll dressed in a Huggies diaper and baby clothes, carried around and spoke to it.  I always let the boys sniff and be curious. Joe is good with her too, but he will walk away when Madie gets too rambunctious.
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Re: How are your ridgebacks with children?
« Reply #8 on: April 16, 2006, 08:48 PM »
Rene,
I have had a house of 4 Ridgebacks for about 10 years, and have had 5 Litters of puppies. I have two grandkids, ages now almost 6 and 4, and they have one of my pups, and everyone has gotten along great since the beginning.
Mind you I NEVER leave a child un attended alone in a room with a dog, it is just common sense, if a child were to stick something in a dogs eye and there is pain, nothing is predictable, i know what I would do to someone that intentionally or maybe even accidentally poked me in the eye, but other wise, the kids climb on the dogs, hug them, play with them, kiss them, hold their ears up pretending that the dogs can fly, etc.,dress them with clothes.
My one female (Dakota), that we showed and bred, she would let strangers stand around her litter box and watch her whelp, and she would wag her tail. My friends daughter was also here and she was about 7-9 and she would let her hold the pups and be relaxed, they are just the best with the kids, but when it comes to strangers coming in the back yard, approach our fence without Mom or Dad there and forget it, you might loose your hand.  But then again, when faced with Danger, they are so intelligent.

As bad as they could be with strangers approaching the yard, we had our Carbon Monoxide detector go off one time, my son called me and I yelled open the windows and get all the animals and yourself out of house, I rushed home and all the dogs were in the back yard, Three fire engines at the house and about 2 dozen firemen walking around.  They said by the way we had the highest legal reading ever recorded in our town, i will never be with out one of these detectors I can tell you. Then never could determine the cause, we think it was an old stove, we replaced it immediately and never had another occurrence, back to the story,
any way, those dogs who would never let anyone near the back yard, yet here these strange firemen are in their head gear and coats and axes, they walked right in the yard and in the house, and the dogs as if they new they had to be there, just stood there and let them walk on by. 
They are just the best breed, I will never own anything but a Ridgeback, they are just great with everyone that has ever come here, they greet everyone hello, and then go lay down.
I know a lot of breeds, after being a dog groomer for over 20 years, I have gotten to know the different quirks with different breeds, and to me Ridgebacks are the greatest. I am down to two dogs now, ages now 10 and 12 years and they are still great and patient with the kids, my grandkids were just here for two days and the dogs slept with the kids and their stuffed animals, no floor for my dogs!! ;D
But I am prejudice.
Not sure if any of this helps or not, everyone has their own reasons for loving their own breeds and dogs, and I could go on for ever, so I will stop now.
Wow, I just realized how much I miss working and talking to other people about my dogs!  Sorry if it bores any of you.
Donna

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Re: How are your ridgebacks with children?
« Reply #9 on: April 17, 2006, 06:38 PM »
I have 2 Ridgebacks.  My girl, Tanzi, is very gentel with kids of all ages.  My male, Leo, is more rambuctious and wants to play with the kids.  He is 90 pounds of muscle and has knocked my 14 year old son into the wall playing.  I would say overall they are good with kids, but strong.  I think you made the right decision waiting for the kids to be alittle older.  It is also easier to train the kids if they are older.  Accidents happen, we hear about it all the time.  I am sure when the time is right, you will know, and the dog and kids will be best friends.
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Re: How are your ridgebacks with children?
« Reply #10 on: April 18, 2006, 03:36 PM »
I have to agree with RRlady and Donna.  For the safety of pet and child, you can't leave young children unattended with any dog. 

We adopted Autumn when she was 2 or 3 years old and poorly socialized for most of her life.  At the time, my 1 year old niece was living with us for a few months.  Autumn and the baby were kind of funny together in that they liked to share the same toys and food.   :P  Autumn really really loved the high chair too.  It meant that she got an additional feeding time.  She would just lay patiently under the chair and wait for the windfall.  If the baby walked around with any food, Autumn would try to take that too--and usually succeed if we didn't catch her in time. 

Autumn never minded when the baby would play on her, tug her ears or tail or hit her with toys.  If it bothered her, she would simply get up and walk away.

Autumn pounces on her stuffed animals when she plays.  The only time she ever scared me with the baby was when she pounced on her...   :o  I was horrified!  She didn't hurt her, but she really scared the baby, my sister and me!  We were right there and corrected her.  She never did it again.  I think the biggest problem is that they're big dogs, or in our case a big puppy.  It wouldn't have phased me at all if Autumn hadn't outweighed the baby by 40# at the time... 

Other than that she's been great with kids.  Her and her brother, Jackson even helped my 8 year old nephew get over his fear of dogs. 
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Re: How are your ridgebacks with children?
« Reply #11 on: April 18, 2006, 03:39 PM »
Loved this post, as it shows exactly how loving they are, but still we have to watch them as they can hurt unintentionally.

Welcome to the forum.
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Re: How are your ridgebacks with children?
« Reply #12 on: April 18, 2006, 09:44 PM »
Seamore joined our family when my first daughter Marina was 8 mo old.  We began looking for the right guy while I was pregnant and most breeders wouldn't touch us, saying that since we were having a baby it was NOT the time to introduce another new member to the family. 

Actually, for us, it was just right.  It was difficult with a chewing housebreaking puppy and a crawling baby, but having the two grow together and having me establish the pack order while Seamore was small worked wonders. 

Since, we've had another daughter, Alli.  Our girls are 4 and 6 and Seamore is 5.  He is gentle as a kitten around the girls, tolerant and loving of their attention.  The girls have learned the proper etiqutte when dealing with dogs and are proud to walk him on his leash (he even obeys the 4 yr old, with my help).  Marina has brought Seamore to her school for show-and-tell twice and he just loves the kids. Although, he's still aloof of strangers, if it's a kid, he sits and wags his tail and gives kisses.

We got lucky with a docile, omega dog who loves attention.  He's a crummy watchdog, only barks on command, but I still think if anyone were to threaten my kids, he'd defend them to his death.

Here's his pic with Marina when he was 3


Here he asked Alli to change the channel on the TV


Handsome devil!
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Re: How are your ridgebacks with children?
« Reply #13 on: April 18, 2006, 11:09 PM »
yes, he is a handsome devil and would that be his tongue sticking out in the chair picture?  How cute is that.
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Re: How are your ridgebacks with children?
« Reply #14 on: April 19, 2006, 04:03 PM »
Hello, great to see all this info on rr's and kids. Brando is GREAT with Peter, but a little confused by the whirl wind of 8 year olds waving their arms and squeeling like they do! This was a great turn out for responses and that is Great to see. We usually keep a close eye on his interaction with new kids - and as we have just moved to a new neighborhood, there are plenty for him to pracitce his manners with! He means well, but is big, and could easily knock a child or small adult like myself over....funny sight to see and I have a good sense of humor about it!

I saw the msg about the rr knocking down another child who was picking on his boy; thought I would share as brando loves to pull me out of the bedroom by the seat of my pants durring "tickle time" My son thinks its the greatest thing ever! with a little help from Brando, he may has quite an advantage. Brando prances around with a little victory dance to boot!
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Re: How are your ridgebacks with children?
« Reply #15 on: April 19, 2006, 09:53 PM »
My boys have the best time with our dogs.
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Re: How are your ridgebacks with children?
« Reply #16 on: April 25, 2006, 04:26 PM »
We just spent the weekend at my inlaws.  Our son is 14 months.  Two nights in a row, we put him to bed and went out with friends, leaving him with my hubby's parents.  They have a 10 year old Springer Spaniel.  Both nights, their Spaniel went into the guest room and our Stella tore after her.  They were fine together while Alex was awake and playing, but Stella gets protective of him while he sleeps.  How cute is that.
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Re: How are your ridgebacks with children?
« Reply #17 on: April 25, 2006, 07:05 PM »
I am going to add photos of Madison with Rhett and Joe.  I love all of the photos you all have shared. I have many favorites, but these 4 speak volumes.
1. Rhett as a tiny tyke had exposure to our neighbor boy, Danny as well as Madison.
2. Madie's secret to the boys' adoration, I am sure, has something to do with viewing as a source of nibbles and treats.
4. She is comfy around the boys and they with her.
Over the weekend I had 6 RRs here, a Dobe and a Greyhound.  She wasn't fazed at all.  She thinks she is a dog...she will drink from the dog water bowl, if we aren't careful, sometimes she will lick her plate like a doggy (especially if it is cake or something sweet).  I kid her mom and tell her if I find her lifting her leg to go potty in the yard, I will draw the line. ::)

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Re: How are your ridgebacks with children?
« Reply #18 on: April 25, 2006, 10:09 PM »
 Sharon,
 I just love the picture with the baby laughing on the ground!!!! What sweet pictures.
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« Reply #19 on: April 26, 2006, 12:23 AM »
Sharon,
 I just love the picture with the baby laughing on the ground!!!! What sweet pictures.

Thank you very much!  Photography is my passion along with writing.  Needless to say that my favorite subjects are Madison, Joe and Rhett.

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Re: How are your ridgebacks with children?
« Reply #20 on: April 26, 2006, 12:24 PM »
Hi sharon, love the  pics of the dogs with the kids :) and love the story about the plate licking......too cute and made me smile!

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Re: How are your ridgebacks with children?
« Reply #21 on: April 26, 2006, 12:33 PM »
Hi sharon, love the  pics of the dogs with the kids :) and love the story about the plate licking......too cute and made me smile!

Melissa P

Thank you, Melissa.  Raising kids with dogs is wonderful and so good for children as it teaches them compassion, care and the joy of being loved unconditionally.  A few slurps out of a water bowl...are a small price to pay  ;D ....now, if I could only convince my daughter of that.

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Re: How are your ridgebacks with children?
« Reply #22 on: April 27, 2006, 09:12 AM »
my son is eight, and recently I had taken on a few little ones for a good freind who needed a hair cut - two 18 month old twins.....they were all over that water bowl in two seconds flat! I had forgotten to pick it up like I knew to do when Peter was little - funny how they gravitate to those things -
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